tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12634736.post7968667985964623299..comments2024-02-17T14:16:33.802-07:00Comments on The Egyptian's Wife: Sectarian garbage... Can we throw it out???UmmLaylahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05288769161885258898noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12634736.post-26515922530548911212008-05-22T15:33:00.000-06:002008-05-22T15:33:00.000-06:00Alsalamo alikom .. it is my first visit here and t...Alsalamo alikom .. it is my first visit here and this was the first post i read.. I was very touched and i totally totally agree with you.. It is sad how differences get to some people amongst our ummah.. And as you mentioned we and others must learn ethics of conversations and trying to understand differences and finally i would add that we need not get violent, instead either keep trying to explain things as they are in the Quran and Sunnah or leave in peace praying for others and us with them with Hedayah, guidance.. Respect is very important in Islam.. may Allah join all Moslems together to be one hand one day... glad i dropped by !Dalullahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14853828117889451812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12634736.post-67916414126839407982008-05-21T02:04:00.000-06:002008-05-21T02:04:00.000-06:00AA- UmmLayla,I'm with alajnabiya on being super im...AA- UmmLayla,<BR/><BR/>I'm with alajnabiya on being super impressed by the 3rd grader. Where the heck did he learn that factoid?<BR/><BR/>My 4th grader still struggles with her times tables, much less anything to do with Islamic history!<BR/><BR/>Did you ever find out about the kid? Was s/he simply parroting a question given by an adult?<BR/><BR/>Very curious...Naeem:https://www.blogger.com/profile/15397380149160556040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12634736.post-84590699816238582802008-05-19T23:48:00.000-06:002008-05-19T23:48:00.000-06:00Asalamu Walaikum,Subhanallah--the new guy at Taco ...Asalamu Walaikum,<BR/>Subhanallah--the new guy at Taco Bell asked me today if I was Muslim, followed by "What kind"--I have never been asked that before! I don't think you would like much of what I responded. <BR/>My kids didn't know the difference, we have somewhat explained it to them.<BR/>Love and Peace,<BR/>~BrookeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12634736.post-49351092517040320762008-05-18T09:25:00.000-06:002008-05-18T09:25:00.000-06:00Al-salamu alikom umm Layla ,I like what you wrote ...Al-salamu alikom umm Layla ,<BR/><BR/>I like what you wrote , and your thoughts too.<BR/><BR/> Recently, the unity between muslims is very much required indeed.<BR/><BR/>no more divisions , should be our aim<BR/><BR/>the most important thing , in my opinion, is to every single one to search and know much more his own way , for himself, in his way of ALLAH by his (swt) help<BR/>and not to argue , or fight <BR/>that's not the way or the time<BR/><BR/>MAY ALLAH bless you AND ALL YOUR FAMILLY<BR/><BR/>by the way<BR/><BR/>I'm egyptian sunni mum , & I'v admired your blogAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12634736.post-53022204749415130612008-05-17T19:35:00.000-06:002008-05-17T19:35:00.000-06:00Assalamu Alaikum. I feel the same way. If you say ...Assalamu Alaikum. I feel the same way. If you say 'La Ilaha Illa Allah Muhammad Rasulullah' - that is enough for me to know you are Muslim and i leave Allah to judge us all in our practice. It is not for us to judge each other's piety and faith, as only Allah can know that. We all know looks can be deceiving, even behavior. I pray for the unity of the Muslim Ummah. May Allah help the Muslims suffering injustice in all world.Islamic Notebookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10628167850141187718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12634736.post-1962415421732723382008-05-17T12:39:00.000-06:002008-05-17T12:39:00.000-06:00Yusuf, I don't feel qualified to go there with the...Yusuf, I don't feel qualified to go there with the historical aspect of this debate.... And to be honest I don't even want to get into it right now (although we should eventually) because I just want to focus on having the intention of understanding and respecting each other as much as possible.<BR/><BR/>Brooke, I told you it shocked me!LOL I KNOW my kids don't know!<BR/><BR/>Socrunchy, I agree with you. We have to TALK about our differences if we truly want understanding (which is the first step towards mutual respect, IMHO). And of course that means actually talking to someone from the other side... Not just reading about it or talking to another person with the same sect as you. This is why I respect DH's opinion about the whole thing... He had Shia roommates and they really debated and had some great talks... So he isn't fronting when he discusses it because he has heard the other side's version. I hope we can all get to that point. I am totally going to check out the link you posted, thanks!<BR/><BR/>Alajnabiya, there are more things in common, I hope!!!<BR/><BR/>Anon, Thanks. What sect are you? I hope we can all get together and stop this calling each other the K word... As I see it you read Quran, acknowledge the Prophet and pray 5 times a day you are Muslim, Allahu Alim.UmmLaylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05288769161885258898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12634736.post-60172794467924148172008-05-17T01:49:00.000-06:002008-05-17T01:49:00.000-06:00Salam,I admire your philosophy and wish you well. ...Salam,<BR/>I admire your philosophy and wish you well. I agree with all you said. I am a Muslim, I read the Quran and pray toward Mecca daily. I love the Prophet Muhammad (saw) and strive to follow his example yet because of my particular branch of Islam i am labelled 'Kafir' and members of my community are persecuted and judged outside the pail of Islam the world over.<BR/>In the end only Allah can judge the faith of people and until such a time as His judgement becomes clear we should deal with each other with dignity and humanity. May Allah bless you for your noble intentions.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12634736.post-86867445613793812302008-05-16T23:04:00.000-06:002008-05-16T23:04:00.000-06:00Assalaamu 'alaikum,I am just shocked that a 3rd gr...Assalaamu 'alaikum,<BR/><BR/>I am just shocked that a 3rd grader would know enough to ask that! Most American adults don't know that much.<BR/><BR/>I agree that while we should recognize that there are serious issues of disagreement between shi'as and Sunnis, we have to realize that we still have more in common than not.alajnabiyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11151422748406582102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12634736.post-28601861872052855342008-05-16T21:38:00.000-06:002008-05-16T21:38:00.000-06:00Asssalaamu alaikom, Wow, that's a good load there ...Asssalaamu alaikom, <BR/><BR/>Wow, that's a good load there Yusuf Smith. I'm sure you wouldn't listen to an extremist, fringe group member so I'll ignore your comment, inshallah. It just amazes me because I think it goes against the entire essence of UmmLayla's post. <BR/><BR/>UmmLayla, as a Shia Muslim I agree with you entirely on the need for unity. At the same time, I recognize the need for unity to be on our common ground with respect to differing ideas. Often as a Shia Muslim, I feel like I'm going to be judged/harassed/condemned when I attend a masjid that isn't set on Shia aqeedah or programs by other groups. It seems a good portion of folks want to say "You shia, you created this biddah and you're the cause of the problem." I don't think I'm unorthodox or on the wrong path (obviously, if I did I wouldn't be Shia). That's how I view everyone else. Aren't we are all trying to gain nearness to Allah swt? Aren't we all trying to follow what we know and what we study and feel is accurate? InshAallah I hope so and pray we all follow what we believe is the haqq (even if we draw different conclusions).<BR/><BR/>The Doha Debates show recently had a topic MOTION: THIS HOUSE BELIEVES THE SUNNI-SHIA CONFLICT IS DAMAGING ISLAM'S REPUTATION AS A RELIGION OF PEACE. I'd offer it up for people to watch and really reconsider the thought that this "divide" is a big problem to the face of Islam. The link is http://www.thedohadebates.com/output/Page1.asp <BR/><BR/>For centuries Shias/Sunnis have gotten along just fine. I think a good majority of the fitnah that has been created is over-hyped by zealots who love to bash and make takfir on people. How many time's I've been sitting amongst people who didn't know I was Shia (and who would have never known I was Shia unless I told them) for them to say outlandish and flamboyant statements that were completely false - often outrageous. (And too I've heard some inaccurate things from Shias about Sunnis - usually grouping them all up as "extremists wahhabies"). <BR/><BR/>The bottom line is that if there's going to be change and unity, it has be done with honesty, and not forgetting the differences, but keeping in mind the similarities (which completely outweigh any differences).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12634736.post-51116276290905374632008-05-16T21:22:00.000-06:002008-05-16T21:22:00.000-06:00That kid must have a relative in Iraq. I don't thi...That kid must have a relative in Iraq. I don't think my 3rd grader knows the difference...lemmie go see<BR/>~BrookeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12634736.post-3169500813937707072008-05-16T16:23:00.000-06:002008-05-16T16:23:00.000-06:00As-Salaamu 'alaikum,What the young boy had heard w...As-Salaamu 'alaikum,<BR/><BR/>What the young boy had heard was not strictly true. The election of Abu Bakr (radhi Allahu 'anhu) did not cause any dissension among the Sahaba at the time; the trouble came much later, after the trouble which ensued from the murder of 'Uthmaan (radhi Allahu 'anhu). The partisans of 'Ali (radhi Allahu 'anhu) appeared only after his death, mainly among the tribes who were settled in southern Iraq. When the people of Kufa wanted 'Ali (radhi Allahu 'anhu) as their leader, he in fact did not accept the position until the surviving veterans of Badr agreed to it, and the Ummah has thousands of people descended through him and the vast majority are Sunnis, many of them very distinguished Sunnis at that.<BR/><BR/>There has emerged a very strong Orientalist/academic narrative which portrays the Sunni/Shi'a divide as having emerged at the very beginning and of being "six of one and half a dozen of the other", when nothing could be further from the truth; the Sunnis have always been the mainstream and the Shi'ites a set of extremist fringe groups, one sect of whom gained more prominence by taking over Iran after the Mongols had massacred many of the scholars there. Until that happened, Iran produced many distinguished Sunni scholars, Imam Ghazali and Abdul-Qadir al-Jilani to name just two of them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com