Sunday, May 29, 2005

The mystery of my husband

Can someone please tell me why some men think that barraging you with insults and proofs of your mistakes they will inspire you to work harder at the things they want you to do? Truly a misguided attempt at communication gentlemen. Try discussing, try explaining, try anything but this. Even if you are right in all the things you say the TONE will defeat you. There, I feel better now.

"Do not remove a fly from your friend's forehead with a hatchet" Confucius

3 comments:

cncz said...

feeling your pain, sister, feeling it...
*removes hatchet from forehead*

UmmLayla said...

ROTFL!

Um Ibrahim said...

people don't repeat a behavior unless it works. If you react to his complaining by doing what he says, he learned that he has to do that every time to get you to do something. This is psychology mumbo jumbo that i learned from a therapist video.