Can someone please tell me why some men think that barraging you with insults and proofs of your mistakes they will inspire you to work harder at the things they want you to do? Truly a misguided attempt at communication gentlemen. Try discussing, try explaining, try anything but this. Even if you are right in all the things you say the TONE will defeat you. There, I feel better now.
"Do not remove a fly from your friend's forehead with a hatchet" Confucius